Truthfulness ~ St. Bridget of Sweden

St. Bridget of Sweden, pray for us!

Our final meeting of Wreath I!  The past nine months has gone so fast and I hope the girls have had as much enjoyment as I have participating in our 'little' LFGC...

We began our meeting with the prayers in the member's guide: Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love (each girl recited a prayer) and the prayer to St. Thérèse.

A brief review from our lesson on the virtue of Industry.

Together we sang the memory verse from last month and glass beads were put into the vase for assignments completed while each girl shared something memorable that they did to grow in the virtue - Industry.  No problem for this group filling the vase!

Virtue ~ Saint ~ Flower of the Month

I used Chat with God's Little Ones Lesson 30, the 8th Commandment, to talk about the virtue of truthfulness.

Then, summarizing from the Leader's guide we discussed the following:  the 8th Commandment tells used not to bear false witness against our neighbor; not to hurt our neighbor's good name by lying about him or saying things that will make other people lose respect for him; never harm others by saying unkind things about them; never talk about their faults, because you have no right to judge people - Jesus said, "Judge not, and you will not be judged."  The 8th Commandment tells us not to tell a lie.  Lying is the sin against truthfulness.  God is Truth and we are called to act in truthfulness.  You must be truthful even if you know you may be punished.  You are really brave if you always tell the truth.

From The Catholic Girl's Guide :  Real, true, honest, unselfish love of all men or charity, ought to rule your heart, guide your tongue, dictate your speech.  Then there will be no unkind word, no word injurious to your neighbor.

Jesus said:  "I say to you, that every idle word that men shall speak they shall render an account for it in the day of judgement."

We recited the memory verse for this month from the marker board and then sang together using the Memory Verse CD.

The narcissus is the chosen flower for the virtue of truthfulness.  However, these beautiful long stem red roses had to substitute to honor our Blessed Mother this month as it is October and there is not a fresh narcissus to be found in the land.

Perhaps a gesture from St. Thérèse as these were so lovely and such a good price!  Plus - they adorned the mantle next to Our Lady for a full five days!

While the girls worked on their notebook and coloring pages (thanks once again to Jessica @ Shower of Roses for the notebook page template and Charlotte @ Waltzing Matilda for the coloring page), I read St. Bridget's biography out loud from the Member's Guide.

One of the mothers then read 'Meet Kindness and Truth' - A Story about Truthfulness in the Virtue and Stories book.  We had some really good discussion afterwards.

Completed notebook pages.

Craft

Narcissus 'Honesty' Necklaces

Small, wooden circles and satin light blue ribbon purchased at Hobby Lobby.  My husband drilled a small hole at the top of each wooden piece.  I copied two different images of the narcissus flower to Mod Podge.  The girls could then use permanent marker to write a Bible verse on the back:  

Let not mercy and truth leave thee, put them about thy neck, and write them in the tables of thy heart.  Proverbs 3:3  

or

A kind mouth multiplies friend, and gracious lips prompt friendly greetings.  Sirach 6:5

The choice of blue ribbon ties in the meaning of 'true blue':  loyal and unwavering in one's opinions or support for a cause.  There are several theories to its origin, one is the representation in paintings of the Virgin Mary in blue clothing.

'True blue' friends!

Snack

'Narcissus' Fruity Marshmallow Treats

I really thought that by using a leaf cookie cutter and a bit of icing and sprinkles that it would somehow turn out to look just like a narcissus...and then, sometimes ideas just don't work out like you think they will :).  We have made marshmallow treats before using Coco Pebbles and they were a real hit in our family.  I used Fruity Pebbles for maximum color and the jarred marshmallow cream.  The icing was of the canned variety that I purchased as a shortcut to save some time.  Needless to say, we've had better treats!  The girls were a bit wound up from the sugar overload, turned a few cartwheels in the living room and begged for a goofy photo.  Here you go... 

Closing

"(Name) may God bless you and help you to grow in the virtue of Industry."  "Congratulations!"

We completed our meeting by praying together the Hail Mary and thanking God for bringing us together to grow in virtue.  

Pray for our members, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, as they work towards earning their ninth patch and grow in the Virtue of Truthfulness - and through these small acts, showing their love for your Son, Jesus.

Industry ~ St. Frances Xavier Cabrini

St. Frances Xavier Cabrini, pray for us!

All together again for our eight meeting of Wreath I.  It makes me so happy that the girls are so excited to be together and share their faith.

We began our meeting with the prayers in the member's guide: Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love (each girl recited a prayer) and the prayer to St. Therese.

A brief review from our lesson on the virtue of Humility.

Together we sang the memory verse from last month and glass beads were put into the vase for assignments completed while each girl shared something memorable that they did to grow in the virtue - Humility.  I do believe they will fill the jar!

Virtue ~ Saint ~ Flower of the Month

The memory verse was posted on the marker board, the girls recited first and then sang together using the Memory Verse CD.

That isn't a new 'Little Flower' you see but a brother who very much wants to begin a Blue Knights program here (photo was taken before the meeting).  I was amazed that he also has all the verses memorized... from listening to his little sister sing them all the time!  Such a supportive big brother and he has been a great help with the behind the scenes preparations around the house on meeting days.  Thank you!!!

The daffodil is the chosen flower for the virtue of industry.  (..."Scarcely has the winter's snow disappeared from the sunny fields at the approach of spring when a charming, gold-colored flower makes its appearance - the daffodil.  I have called it industry's flower because it hastens to blossom as soon as possible..." Catholic Girl's Guide). I know that when I see the daffodils blooming in my garden beds, spring is here!  I wish our calendar months for our club meetings coincided a bit better but we began in February.  So, no fresh daffodils here :).

Our lesson this month began with examples in scripture of the importance of industry (work).    In fact, the Holy Bible gives us the greatest examples of work.  The girls were reminded that our ability to work is a gift from God.  We reinforced the examples by going directly to the catechism of the Catholic Church - reiterating the three things that we must do to be happy with God in heaven:  to know God (Piety), to love God (Love of God, Love of Neighbor) and to serve God:  how do we do this - pray well, play well and work well.  I talked about vocations and told the girls that as a wife and a mother I am called to serve God by working hard at both of these things.  Then we discussed their vocations as children of God sharing ideas about what this means...completing homework assignments even if you don't like to, without complaining, saying "God, I am doing this because I love you."  We are all called to please God by performing our work with the best efforts and intentions.  I told a story about St. Faustina:  in her diary she saw her work as little and meaningless.  She wanted to serve God in big ways.  God sent her a sign and told her that small things well is what pleases.  

"We can do no great things; only small things with great love."

St. Teresa of Calcutta  

Notebook pages (using Jessica's template @ Shower of Roses) and coloring pages (obtained from Charlotte @ Waltzing Matilda) were completed while I read a short biography of St. Frances Cabrini and also the story of 'The Knitter's Club - A Story of Industry' from Virtues and Stories.

Craft 

'Fancy' Cleaning Gloves

I was so excited about this craft!  Unfortunately we couldn't complete the craft during our meeting.  Perhaps we can do this craft at our Mother Daughter Tea.  The craft was supposed to coordinate perfectly with a group outing to the church to help the clean.  Unfortunately we were just unable to schedule this...we could always try again another time.

This is the finished product above completed the next day!  So cute and provides quite the motivation to assist with any cleaning jobs around the house!  I found the gloves at the Dollar Store, some discounted fabric (pleated as the glue was applied), ribbon border and a few sparkles on the ring fingers for added effect.

Snack

Mini Daffodil Cupcakes

Closing

Badges earned since our last meeting were presented, congratulating each Little Flower for their dedication and industry.

"(Name) may God bless you and help you to grow in the virtue of Humility."  "Congratulations!"

We completed our meeting by praying together the Hail Mary and thanking God for bringing us together to grow in virtue.  

I love how the girls rushed to have a group picture centered around the Blessed Mother.

Pray for our members, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, as they work towards earning their seventh patch and grow in the Virtue of Humiliy - and through these small acts, showing their love for your Son, Jesus.

Humility ~ St. Catherine Labouré

St. Catherine Labouré, pray for us!

Wreath I continues with our seventh meeting!  Our group was even smaller this month (we missed you girls!) The lesson and simple craft fell into place and our meeting was so enjoyable.

We began our meeting with the prayers in the member's guide: Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love (each girl recited a prayer) and the prayer to St. Therese.

A brief review from our lesson on the virtue of Piety.

Together we sang the memory verse from last month and glass beads were put into the vase for assignments completed while each girl shared something memorable that they did to grow in the virtue - Piety.  I am so impressed by all their dedication!

Virtue ~ Saint ~ Flower of the Month

The memory verse was posted on the marker board, we recited first and then sang together using the Memory Verse CD.

The violet (the simplest flower, shows humility) is the chosen flower for the virtue of humility.  Unfortunately, I wasn't able to find any fresh violets or even silk.  The vibrant daisies were a great substitute - the purple just right.

The lesson began with two gift bags which the girls all described as equally pretty, the contents not revealed.  I then passed around the first bag (which had scented soap in it) and each girl smelled the bag and told us what it smelled like ("sweet", "fresh", "clean"); then I passed around the second bag (with an onion) and each girl smelled the bag and described ("stinky", "garlic", "potato salad").  We all agreed that the bags were nice looking on the outside but what was inside smelled very different.  Humility is something that you can't really 'see' but true humility has a profound 'scent' before God and His creation.  The behavior of modesty can be 'seen'...how do you show your love for God?  is it the way you dress, talk, eat and behave?  Humility is accepting compliments and criticism, being unassuming and not drawing attention to ourselves.  True humility is recognizing that everything we have - every talent and material good - comes from God.  The bag with the onion was heavier than the bag with the sweet soap.  The girls noticed this and we talked about the sweet scent rising towards heaven because it was lighter...when we thank God for our talents and abilities we honor Him.  We are to receive compliments with real charity and proper courtesy and not brush them off - that insults God.  Pride is a sin against humility, a turning away from God and denying that we need Him.  The bag with the onion gave off an offensive odor and was heavier than the other gift bag...not easily 'rising towards heaven'.  The weight of prideful sin and false modesty.

"Humility does not mean thinking less of yourself than of other people, nor does it mean having a low opinion of your own gifts.  It means freedom from thinking about you at all."
William Temple      

I usually download both the coloring page and notebook page from Jessica @ Shower of Roses - thanks to her great generosity.  However, she also was unable to find a coloring page for St. Catherine Labouré.  I could find holy card images as the one posted.  A Google search did bring up a couple sites but I was unable to pull up the document(s)...ugh.  Finally I did find one of Our Lady with St. Catherine during an apparition.  I just think from heaven St. Catherine continues to outpour such humility, unassuming of attention in any way.  Those are my thoughts anyway :).  I read a short biography of St. Catherine from the Picture Book of Saints and also the story of 'Bethy's Visit, A Story about Humility' from Virtues and Stories, while the girls completed their notebook pages.     

Completed notebook pages:    

Each girl received a Miraculous Medal and we talked about the images on the front and back, and their significance/meaning. 

~ Craft ~ 

 A simple 'violet' bookmark craft using silk scrapbook flowers, crossgrain ribbon, sparkling 'violet' gems and small brads to secure.  No glue, no paint, just cut a 12 inch strip of ribbon and decorate!  They turned out really cute and useful. 

~ Snack ~  

'Violet' cupcakes...inspiration compliments of Shower of Roses (of course!).

Badge ceremony for badges earned since our last meeting.  Our meeting was completed after praying the Hail Mary together and thanking God for our gifts.

O Mary conceived without sin pray for us

who have recourse to thee.

Pray for our members, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, as they work towards earning their seventh patch and grow in the Virtue of Humiliy - and through these small acts, showing their love for your Son, Jesus.

Piety ~ St. Cecilia

St. Cecilia, pray for us!

This was our sixth meeting in Wreath I, beginning with the prayers in the member's guide: Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love and the prayer to St. Therese.

A brief review from our lesson on the virtue - Obedience:
The fourth commandment tells us to obey.  All of God's commandments are out of love and without obedience we will never have holiness.  When we obey we are imitating Jesus!  We are showing how much we love Him.  This is especially true when we don't feel like doing something and we do it anyways.  (Baltimore Catechism).   We reviewed the different types of obedience - full, immediate, cheerful, trustful and sacrificial and the girls participated to define each.

Together we sang the memory verse from last month and glass beads were put into the vase for assignments completed while each girl shared something memorable that they did to grow in the virtue - Obedience.  Great job once again, 'Little Flowers'!

Virtue ~ Saint ~ Flower of the Month

The memory verse was posted on the marker board, we recited first and then sang together using the Memory Verse CD.

I know You can do all things, and that no purpose of Yours can be hindered.

Job 42:2

The forget-me-not flowers is tiny and plentiful reminding us of the sweet purity of Mary's eyes which longed to gaze only on her Saviour.  So too should we make little acts of piety frequently and with a pure intention.

The girls worked on their notebook pages while they listened to St. Cecilia's story and the lesson on piety.  Using the wonderful material in the Leader's Guide,  I defined piety as 'the virtue by which we give honor and service to whom we own our very being.  If you are truly pious, do everything you have to do as a service done to God.'  We should imitate our Blessed Mother as she was the perfect example of resignation to the will of God:  "Behold the handmaid of the Lord;  be it done to me according to thy word."  We then talked about the 'Robe of Piety' as described in The Catholic Girl's Guide :  as tears are an outward sign of inward grief, true piety and devotion are evident by acts and practices.  It is these acts and practices that make up the colors in the 'Robe of Piety'.  I read what each color represented.  I also talked about the sacraments and staying in the state of Grace to be closer to God and open to His will.

The construction paper was really colorful...like a rainbow!  A few flower embellishments and music notes.  I also read 'Theresa's Prayer Book - A Story of Piety' in the Virtues and Stories book while they worked.  They really seemed to enjoy it.

 ~ Craft ~

I really thought we would have time to make 'Robe of Piety' Ribbon Barrettes but we did not.  I think I will save these for our Mother/Daughter Tea.

The Colors of Piety Rainbow (original document downloaded by permission from Shower of Roses...thank you!) was copied onto watercolor paper.  These took a bit longer to complete than I expected (hence not being able to make barrettes!).

Love it!

 ~ Snack ~

'Robe of Piety' Sherbet with strawberry topping (it needed some red and would have been just perfect with a some fresh blueberries).

~ Closing ~

Badge ceremony for badges earned since our last meeting.

"(Name) may God bless you and help you to grow in the virtue of Obedience."  "Congratulations!"

Our meeting was completed after praying the Hail Mary together and thanking God for bringing us together to grow in virtue.

My hydrangea bush is just lovely this year.  Though it is not bright blue and they are not the flower of the month,  sometimes you just have to use what you have...I would like to plant forget-me-nots in our Mary's Garden next year.

Pray for our members, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, as they work towards earning their sixth patche and grow in the Virtue of Piety - and through these small acts, showing their love for your Son, Jesus.

Obedience ~ St. Joan of Arc

St. Joan of Arc, pray for us!

It is hard to believe that we are about half way through our first year of Wreath I!  I was able to find some wonderful suggestions on the Little Flowers Group Blog for this month's lesson and craft on obedience and I think the girls really enjoyed how it all came together (I did!).  A few of them were quite familiar with St. Joan of Arc and her courageous acts of obedience to the will of God.  

We began our fifth meeting once again with the prayers in the member's guide: Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love and the prayer to St. Therese.

A brief review from our lesson on the virtue - Love of Neighbor:
Love is first from God and it must be returned to God.  From our love of God comes the love or our neighbor.  The girls were reminded again of the words from St. Mark's Gospel - we are to love God first and our neighbor second, loving them as we love ourselves - this pleases God.

Together we sang the memory verse from last month and glass beads were put into the vase for assignments completed while each girl shared something memorable that they did to grow in the virtue - Love of Neighbor.  The girls are concerned that we will run out of glass beads before the end of our studies!  They are all doing so well with assignments!

Virtue ~ Saint ~ Flower of the Month

The virtue this month applies to the fourth commandment which tells us to obey.

The memory verse was posted on the marker board, we recited first and then sang together using the Memory Verse CD.


He went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them.  His mother meanwhile kept all these things in memory.  Luke 2:51


The white carnation is the chosen flower for the virtue of obedience.  I had a vase of white carnations next to the statue of our Blessed Mother.  We talked about how long a fresh cut carnation will last in fresh water and then the girls all had a chance to smell the flowers.  They described the scent as "sweet" which was just what I was hoping!  "The carnation is a strong, hearty flower.  We must be strong in our obedience to God and to His commandments.  The carnation gives off a sweet fragrance.  When we are obedient, we diffuse a sweetness wherever we go."  I would like to give credit for this quote but cannot remember where I found it!

The girls put together their notebook pages and were given a St. Joan of Arc coloring page; fleur de lis embellishments and carnations to glue as well.  A prayer for the virtue of obedience was also included.  Notebook page example was again obtained from Jessica at Shower of Roses blog, changed just a bit to fit our group.

I focused on two objectives for the lesson, and during our discussion tried to reinforce the objectives and have the girls also repeat aloud:

1.  All of God's commands are out of love; and, 

2. Without obedience we will never have holiness.

Craft

Supplies for our craft:  wooden hearts, clothespins, small adhesive magnets, glue gun, sparkly gems, tacky glue, permanent markers and 3 x 5 blank index cards to write the types of obedience.  I painted the hearts ahead of time because it just wouldn't dry in time to complete the entire craft.  One side light pink and the opposite side a darker shade of pink (I had both colors in my stash at home so I didn't need to buy more).

As they crafted, we began with a Q/A lesson:  What is one rule in your home that is difficult to follow/or you don't like?  Why do you think we have rules?  Wouldn't life be easier with no rules? etc. The answers generated good discussion and led into examples of loving parents and our loving God.  They were reminded that God loves us so much that He wants us to be able to make good choices.  God's commandments are His way of letting us know ahead of time of the things that have bad consequences.  He is being a loving parent.  I gave an example of a typical playground game and gave the rule that if you not fast at running you cannot play - then asked:  is this rule out of love? (no)  At this point I stated the objective that all of God's commandments are out of love!  The girls repeated this also.

Using Chat with God's Little Ones Lesson 26 Love of God/Chapter 10, the girls answered the questions as I read aloud (ex: Do you know how we find out what God wants us to do?, When we obey our parents, we obey God.  Do you think God wants you to always obey your parents?, etc).  These led nicely into explaining the different types of obedience:    full, immediate, cheerful, trustful and sacrificial.  I gave examples and the girls had to choose which type of obedience applied (sometimes more than one applied).  We again stated the objectives aloud.

This question was asked:  do we all agree that God expects us to obey?  The girls were then asked: how can you prove that?  We discussed the example of Jesus in scripture and His obedience at the temple, the wedding and the crucifixion.  When we obey we are imitating Jesus and showing how much we love Him.  This is especially true when we don't feel like doing something and we do it anyways.

They wrote each type of obedience on five separate index cards.  The heart can be displayed at home, and the cards changed to practice each type of obedience.  We hung the craft on the metal front door and grouped together for a photo.  Someone said it looked like a line-up and so they started to pose for mug shots...giving an example of a bad consequence of DISobedience...lots of giggles!

Snack

This month's snack was a breeze.  Fleur de lis is French for "lily flower" - lily symbolizes purity and chastity.  We talked about how this symbol was easily established as an iconographic attribute of the Blessed Virgin.  It is also believed that the fleur de lis represents the Holy Trinity in religious art.  I mentioned that many images of St. Joan of Arc have the fleur de lis on her flag or garments.  A candy mold was used to make fleur de lis chocolates and I cut a large bowl of fresh fruit served with St. Joan of Arc Swords!  The strawberries were supposed to look like hearts (God's commandments are out of love), the fruit all sweet like the sweet fragrance of obedience.  I had decided not to read a short biography of our saint this month and instead have the girls listen to "God's Hero on Horseback" the St. Joan of Arc Glory Story during our refreshment time; but, they were just too wound up to listen!

Spearing fruit and chocolates is such fun and probably what my daughter remembers most about our meeting!  

In closing we had our badge ceremony and ended our meeting with the Hail Mary.  Our group photo this month was a bit crazy...taken after the 'mug shots'!

Do you ever wonder why God values obedience more than sacrifice?  Because obedience is someone else's idea of what you should sacrifice.
~ David Manuel

Pray for our members, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, as they work towards earning their fifth patch and grow in the Virtue of Obedience - and through these small acts, showing their love for your Son, Jesus.